As an empath myself, I have attracted quite a few people who might be termed ‘narcissists’ or that they have ‘narcissistic personality disorder’ into my life. As a very sensitive and deep feeling person, an empath is like a magnet for a person with narcissistic tendencies, because what these people love most of all …
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What is Soul Alchemy?
In this article I discuss three pillars of what I call Soul Alchemy, AKA, slowly, over time, transforming negativity towards your self and towards life, into creative fuel that you can use to power up your life and realise your dreams.
So, I am inspired to write this post by a past retreatant who I have had some email communications with this week (you know who you are!). I haven’t been writing as often recently as I was not sure whether people were reading my articles. As someone who creates and then sends out their creations, …
How do you know if you are a people pleaser? Basically it means that you are outsourcing respect and love for yourself to others in your life. If you don’t yet fully love, accept and trust yourself, you may find yourself looking outwards to other people for validation of your worth.
When we are really affected by the energies swirling around us, and particularly by other people’s energy, we can easily be pulled into a vortex of drama and negativity without realising it. Other people might be in such a convoluted inner state that they project all of their own inner turmoil onto us without realising what they are doing. And this can feel awful.
I recently experienced a situation where someone projected a lot of their inner reality onto me, making me the cause of their own unaddressed emotional pain.