What is Soul Alchemy?
In this article I discuss three pillars of what I call Soul Alchemy, AKA, slowly, over time, transforming negativity towards your self and towards life, into creative fuel that you can use to power up your life and realise your dreams.
So, I am inspired to write this post by a past retreatant who I have had some email communications with this week (you know who you are!). I haven’t been writing as often recently as I was not sure whether people were reading my articles. As someone who creates and then sends out their creations, …
I am called to write this today, as it’s an important part of my life’s journey, so hopefully it will also resonate with you. I wanted to write about self-definition, deciding who you are and what you stand for. And then also self-expression; sharing who you are and what you stand for with the rest …
If you have people pleasing tendencies, and do your best to always be a ‘good’ person and a ‘nice’ person, you are likely to come across many people who will take advantage of you.
Boundaries are something that our parents and caregivers help us to develop through letting us know that our feelings matter, and helping us to tune into these feelings, and understand the messages they bring.
Do you feel things very deeply? Do you feel the emotions of others, feel what animals are feeling, and the moment you step into a place, immediately have information about what is going on there? Do you unconsciously take the energetic pulse (happy, sad, excited, angry, tranquil, crazed, longing, frustrated, f*cking pissed off…?) of the place and receive all kinds of information about people, whether you are interested or not.
When we are really affected by the energies swirling around us, and particularly by other people’s energy, we can easily be pulled into a vortex of drama and negativity without realising it. Other people might be in such a convoluted inner state that they project all of their own inner turmoil onto us without realising what they are doing. And this can feel awful.
I recently experienced a situation where someone projected a lot of their inner reality onto me, making me the cause of their own unaddressed emotional pain.